Pychology of men and dating
Every relationship needs the balancing act of pursuing and distancing to function.
Play the dynamics of distancer and pursuer to your advantage (we are both in different times/circumstances).
We can practice performing this dance harmonically when we understand the basic make-up that makes men men and women women.
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This may be brought about as an arranged marriage, or either member may pursue and initiate the relationship in those societies that favor freer association.
Situations involving a younger male with an older female also exist, but are not as common.
At least when we understand this, we will be less inclined to feel abandoned or think of worst case scenarios.
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Understanding this, now we know that guys are always much slower than women: they need their space before they have the urge to come to us.
In other words: men can't focus on their relationship when they are unhappy with their work, while women can't focus on their work when they are unhappy with their relationship.
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Historically, unequal pairings are quite common, if not the rule.
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